Safe Sex: A BIG LIE


One of the biggest lies ever told.

There is no such thing as safe sex. 

Notice the name on this package of condoms. Trojan. Its phrase meaning is “work very hard.”

When a condom breaks or is touched in any way, or when contact is made even after sex with a condom, death works very hard to kill you.

Sounds like Proverbs 14:15 to me.

John 8:44-45 says “You are of your father the devil, and the desires of your father you want to do. He was a murderer from the beginning, and does not stand in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaks a lie, he speaks from his own resources, for he is a liar and the father of it. But because I tell the truth, you do not believe Me.”

“Safe sex” is attempting to give a “false sense of security” to help you decide to take a risk to enjoy the pleasures of illegal sex.

As the Scripture points out, the devil is a liar and a murderer.

He doesn’t care about you and he will lie to you just to kill you.

The episode with Charlie Sheen’s announcement that he is HIV positive and has had unprotected sex is another worm (the information about safe sex) that crawled out of the can.

Psalm 107:7 says “Fools! Because of their transgressions and because of their inquiries are afflicted.”

After reading this article from CNN about “Safe Sex,” the world still preaches its lies.

If someone were to walk up to you and say that it is perfectly safe to touch the 3rd Rail with 700 volts, you would look at them crazy.

If someone were to walk up to you and tell you that in that room is uranium and that it is perfectly safe to go in that room without protection, you would say that they are insane.

We do not have a problem with these apparent inherent dangers that you need protection or completely abstain from entertaining any thought to touch electricity or stand in a room where there is uranium.

But when it comes to having sex with someone that has HIV, we seem to have lost our ever living minds.

We have fooled ourselves into thinking that the pleasure of sex is worth the risk of acquiring what is the most destructive disease of sexual immorality.


With the many “medical advances” to help people cope with the acquisition of HIV, there is no escaping of the end result.


The time that they would have had is taken from them because of engaging in the sin of adultery, fornication, homosexuality, and or bisexuality. The pleasures of this life were too enticing to pass up.

The result is clear.

Romans 6:23 says “For the wages of sin is death but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.”

When you work, you expect to get paid.

When you work sin, you must expect to get paid death.

However, there is hope.

“….the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.”

Everyone loves a gift. God gave Jesus as a gift to man to be free from sin forever. We do not get free to continue in sin (see Romans 6:1). We receive the gift and we stay free of sin. Otherwise, “the wages of sin is death.”

Do not be foolish. There is no such thing as safe sex except within the confines of one man and one woman, joined in holy matrimony till death do they part.

The only safe sex is either abstinence or fidelity in marriage.

Anything more than this, and there is no safety guarantees.

Where there is even the slightest risk, all bets are off.

The story regarding safe sex could be read here.

Author: prevailing word ministries

My wife, Valeria and I are the pastors of Prevailing Word Ministries in Brooklyn, NY. We have one daughter, Sherylynne. We are all authors. The Holy Spirit and You, by pastor Valeria, Altered Destiny, A Hustler's Choice, by Sheryl, and The Minister's Crucible and Secret Sexual Sins, by pastor Fred. Please visit to listen to our groundbreaking series "Secret Sexual Sins. You may download it free of charge from iTunes.

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