How To Avoid A Pastor’s Sexual Advances – Avoiding The Demon Of LUST In Preachers

For the most part, there are women that are holy and come to the house of worship to hear the Word of God.

But there are times when a woman will be approached by an immoral pastor.

Here are some signs to look for that will give you a clue as to when he is making a play on you.

AVOID THE PASTOR’S THAT SEXUALLY LOOK AT YOU

Immoral pastors will give the KFC look.

What look?

Every immoral man has “that look.”

Like a piece of chicken, legs, thighs, and breasts.

It’s a heart penetrating look to disarm your walk of holiness to please God.

When an pastor gives you that look, it’s not because he is preaching to you but because he wants you sexually.

No matter what a woman may wear, if it is attractive, he will look beyond your modest dress.

When I mean look beyond your modest dress, he has already undressed you with his perverted heart. And he makes sure that you know that he is looking at you that way so that he gets the message over to you. Other women in the church do pick up on it but sometimes they suppress it because some of them are hoping that he would look at them that way too.

In small church settings, it’s almost certain that he is looking to connect. In much larger settings, it can happen too.

There was a video that I looked at by mistake but it gave me information that is essential to this blog.

Obviously, it was a very provocative video. A man dressed like a pimp sat across from a male and female. He was singing “Can your boyfriend do it like me” or words to that effect. The boyfriend was into his newspaper or electronic device and not into his girlfriend. The girlfriend look over her boyfriend’s shoulder and was instantly attracted to the dude. He gave that “look” and that’s all she needed.

She left her boyfriend in the chair. Brother man didn’t even look up to see where she was going.

But it’s like that in church.

The immoral pastor gives that look, and that all a woman needs.

A PASTOR’S OUTSPOKEN PERSONALITY

His words are smoother than oil and butter, sweeter than honey, and deadlier than a viper.

His intelligence mesmerizes you. His uses of vocabulary disables your senses. He sees that you are easily persuaded and he has invaded your soul.

His words are almost irresistible. Every word goes deeper and deeper into your soul and mind. So much so, that at night you can’t get his voice out of your mind. He lavishes you with words and you cannot get them out of your mind.

He has a way with words that could make you undress in a church service.

As Paul said in Romans 3:4, “…let God be true and every man a liar.”

Even when a pastor is preaching and living right, men are not to be trusted. Just as women come to church for the right and wrong reason, flesh cannot be trusted (see Jeremiah 17:5-10).

Just like the sign in most stores.

“In God we trust. All others pay cash.”

I find it rather disgusting that a man of God would preach his best sermon just to get through to your emotions, and then use his personality to talk you into the bedroom. Just as with rogue pastor Juan McFarland, AIDS infected, defrocked pastor of Shiloh Missionary Baptist Church in Montgomery, AL, had condom-less sex with multiple women on the church grounds.

Just thinking about this.

Even though McFarland has AIDS, he still might be capable of impregnating a woman. Not only are the women at an extreme risk of contracting the disease, they may have also been impregnated. The sad thing is that if they were impregnated, they might have aborted/murdered the child to falsely erase the stigma of being impregnated by an AIDS infected pastor.

While we may never know unless they report that they were impregnated, this is alleged, not confirmed.

He does have YouTube videos of his sermons and it reminded me of the times I was in sexual sin with porn and masturbation. The messages he was preaching had no life. Unregenerate pastors that live in sin is like listening to a shell. There is no life in them. There’s 50% of pastors that’s involved with porn and masturbation that preach the same way. So deep in Secret and Overt Sexual Sins that no one is getting the life of the Holy Spirit. Men that claim to be men of God will emotionally preach their messages because there is no Spirit of God upon him.

God will not place His anointing on a man in sin.

In Israel, when Hannah cried out to the Lord for a son, God used her cry to bring judgment on the nation. Samuel was born and Hannah, as vowed, gave him to the Lord. The sons of Eli, Hophni and Phinehas perverted the temple and Eli refused to discipline his sons. The whole nation was in so much sexual immorality that the Lord had to exercise judgment.

Hophni, his name has the meaning of a pugilist” and Phinehas means “mouth of a serpent.”

Hophni was possibly a rapist and Phinehas was a smooth talker.

Whenever a man uses words to convince you to commit sexual immorality, you are not talking to a man but to a serpent called the demon of lust.

If you do not get away from him, it is just a matter of time, because he will work on you until you give in.

While the demographics are different in certain localities, many women gravitate to houses of worship that is close as possible. But they also go to places where they feel the Spirit.

If the preacher is good looking, married or not, women will still show up. This is the other side of the issue.

Married preachers are supposed to be off limits, but it doesn’t matter these days.

His outspoken personality is coupled with his wardrobe. His robe or suit could also be used as part of the attraction. His position of power and influence is part of the attraction. Like most animals in the animal world, what they build and how they fight for females is an attraction.

In the pulpit, it is no different.

So how do you avoid this?

Find a local church that lives and preaches the Word of God, preaching and living in holiness, perfecting holiness in the fear of God.

If you are single, divorced, or having marital problems, find a church where there is considerable distance from eye contact with a married or single pastor. If you are seeking counseling, you should find a church that have qualified female ministers that can handle your counseling needs.

Should a pastor call you to have you come over to the church, do not go.

Decline the invitation.

If it is just to do church work, never go alone.

Make sure that you bring a friend or relative with you and do not go into places alone with him. Avoid the appearance of evil at all times. Never cross lines that will be regrettable later. The shame and stigma is still applied these days, regardless of how acceptable fornicating or sleeping with a pastor becomes.

Time in the sack is not worth a trip to hell over, for as Paul said, Be not deceived. …..neither fornicators or adulteress……will inherit the kingdom of God.”

If you do not want to be labeled as the church harlot, do what you have to do to avoid the smooth talking demon pastor. 

Identifying Harlots That Come To Church – Pastoral Introspection

Pastors? Are you examining your mental and spiritual walk before God? Are you having difficulty in your marriage? If your marriage is fine, are you still lusting for Suzy sitting in the front row of the service? Are you in prayer on a regular daily basis for you and not for sermons? Are you avoiding the easy pitfalls of sight lust? Are you falling for women in the house of prayer instead of falling on your knees in love of and for God? Are you avoiding your accountability partner to have that regular meeting to inspect your heart and mind?

IF any of these questions have bothered you, then it is time for introspection.

Introspection means “the examination or observation of one’s own mental and emotional processes:”

For the women, it’s not always the ones in the red dresses that are the harlots.

I am firmly aware that there are pastors that take advantage of emotionally unstable women, but just because women are vulnerable, it doesn’t mean that they have a right to cross the line into sexual sins. Being human is not a good excuse to sin. You just do not throw away God’s righteousness by grace and your personal discipline for immoral sex with any man or woman, let alone, a pastor.

Eternity in hell is too long to think about why you couldn’t discipline yourself.

Note well what Paul said, 1 Corinthians 6:9-10
“Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God.”

Paul said in 1 Corinthians 6:15-20 “Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ? Shall I then take the members of Christ and make them members of a harlot? Certainly not! Or do you not know that he who is joined to a harlot is one body with her? For “the two,” He says, “shall become one flesh.” But he who is joined to the Lord is one spirit with Him.

Flee sexual immorality.

Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or do you not know that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and you are not your own? For you were bought at a price; therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s.”

Since the Pastor Juan McFarland debacle, it is safe to say that what Pastor Paul Washer said is true.

There are unregenerate people in the pews and the pulpit.

Jude 4 says “For certain men have crept in unnoticed, who long ago were marked out for this condemnation, ungodly men, who turn the grace of our God into lewdness and deny the only Lord God and our Lord Jesus Christ.”

Instead of repenting of sexual sins, sexual sins is permitted. This is lewdness. And while doing so, they deny the Lord God and our Lord Jesus Christ. In other words, they deem their Lordship null and void. Sin is permissible and God is happy with it because that’s who you are. You teach this to the people and they are happy with it too.

These pastors are posing as if they know the Lord but they practice lawlessness.

There are harlots and perverted pastors that say that they love God, claim to even know the Lord, yet, they practice the very sin that Jesus died on the cross for. True conversion takes place when repentance and obedience to the teachings of the commandments of Jesus is employed.

The harlots are in the house of the Lord.

Proverbs 6:26 says, “For by means of a harlot a man is reduced to a crust of bread; and an adulteress will prey upon his precious life.”

Strong’s Concordance defines a harlot as “(highly- fed and therefore wanton); to commit adultery (usually of the female, and less often of simple fornication, rarely of involuntary ravishment); figuratively, to commit idolatry.”

In essence, by a prostitute, because the verse above notes, that “a man is reduced to a piece of bread…”

Why?

A foolish man will spend all he has to have sex with a harlot and will only have enough money left to buy a piece of bread.

The older brother of the prodigal son stated plainly that when the younger son went out, he spent his inheritance on prostitutes.

The local churches across the nation has the doors open for the harlots and the pulpits have some perverted pastors.

So it is not all one sided.

They do not represent the church. They represent sinners that never made a deliberate commitment to the Lord. They are servants of the house of satan. When they come to church, their plan is to find a target and trip them up.

Sanctified pastors must quickly identify the harlots. Married pastors must pay attention. Wives of pastors must doubly pay attention. Everything is not as innocent as one thinks. Every subtle, innocent move is designed to get you to drop your guard. Once your guard is down, they will make their move. By the time you feel the blade, it’s too late.

Then there is the porn and masturbating pastor that never entered into deliverance, perfecting holiness in the fear of God. These are the ones that get into trouble and entertain the next step of acting out.

A female or male body.

1. The dress of a harlot.

Proverbs 6:10 “And there a woman met him, with the attire of a harlot, and a crafty heart.”

There is nothing that is left to the imagination. She could be wearing a simple, but overtly curvaceous dress. Or tight hugging pants. It could be the blouse that is just a bit too revealing or worldly that may cause the eyes to explore the cleavage. It could be the hair. It could be the jewelry. It could be the crossed legs in stilettos on the front pew. It could be a high skirt.

In the OT, the harlots wore items so that they are distinguished.

Harlots are crafty in the heart and plan well in advance what to wear so that it instantaneously catches the prey’s attention. Like mice sniffing for cheese, a man’s eyes will travel to “investigate” because according to Dr. William Struthers, a man is wired for sex. His mind and his eyes are connected. Once he sees what he likes, the mind will further investigate.

How?

Jesus said in Matthew 5:28 “But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.”

The next thing that happens is that the preacher is no longer concentrating on God, but as planned, the bait is too much to ignore. As like with all mice that sniffs out its meal, the next step is to eat. Not all women plan to do this but just watch what the unregenerate women wear each week. If you see a serious pattern, it’s an attempt on your life.

2. A crafty heart.

The craftiness of a harlot is found in Proverbs 6:24-25 “To keep you from the evil woman, from the flattering tongue of a seductress. Do not lust after her beauty in your heart, nor let her allure you with her eyelids.”

A pastor must know that for a house harlot, every move is planned.

Their beauty is the bait. The flattery is to disarm you. Her eyelids are accenting her and like Morse Code, they signal sex.

Many pastors, especially married pastors will not see it coming, but the wife does.

That’s why the pastor must learn to run like Joseph and leave his coat in the hand of the harlot.

If Joseph didn’t run when he did, the fate of the nation of Israel would have been jeopardized.

Pastor, if you are having marital problems, solve them quickly. Because it is at this point that the enemy strategically sends the harlot right into the house of worship. The devil sends the harlots even when the marriage is tight.

Pastors, do your “due diligence.”

Do a thorough check up on you walk before God. But you need a set of objective eyes on you that could see if you are not up to par spiritually. It is very easy to mask our lack of personal passion for the Lord. In the pulpit, it is very easy to assume that you have it all together. If you are really honest, you would say that you don’t.

Preaching on fire for God is different than living on fire for God.

3. Learn the art of running.

Genesis 39:11-13 says “But it happened about this time, when Joseph went into the house to do his work, and none of the men of the house was inside, that she caught him by his garment, saying, “ Lie with me.” But he left his garment in her hand, and fled and ran outside. And so it was, when she saw that he had left his garment in her hand and fled outside,”

The real lesson begins with never find yourself in compromising positions.

Had he known not to be left alone, it would not have been necessary for Joseph to run. However, he did the next best thing.

He ran.

The dream God gave you is much bigger than an immoral woman.

Learn well Proverbs 11:22.

“As a ring of gold in a swine’s snout,
So is a lovely woman who lacks discretion.”

When an immoral woman is after you for one thing, just remember this Proverb.

When multiple women are willing to fornicate or commit adultery with their pastor, whether he made sexual advances or you are a temple prostitute, you have been reduced to the gold ring in the snout of a pig and you lack discretion.

So pastor?

Are you in Christ or are you a son of Belial?

 

Another Pastor Infects Women Congregants With HIV/AIDS

Another pastor has infected women with the HIV/AIDS virus at a local church in Montgomery, Alabama.

This has been in the news a while but for those that know how wrong this is, perhaps we need to reemphasize some things.

There is two sides to this story.

1. A pastor has no business in Secret Sexual Sins.

2. A pastor has no business fooling around in adultery and fornication in the congregation.

3. A pastor has no business having HIV/AIDS.

In my new book, Secret Sexual Sins II, I shared, by the Holy Spirit about orgies in the church. This is not to say that an orgy took place where he simultaneously infected several women in one session, but it is to say that there are unregenerate people in the church that claim to be saved and they are not. This episode in Shiloh is a hot mess.

As a reminder, the Lord did something in OT Shiloh.

The sons of Belial, Hophni and Phinehas, the sexually perverse sons of Eli, were killed in battle when the Lord brought judgment on the children of Israel for their wickedness in Shiloh.

The Philistines took the ark of the Covenant and the wife of Phinehas, while giving birth, named her child Ichabod. The mother perished at child birth.

Ichabod means “For the glory of the Lord departed.”

So it is at Shiloh Missionary Baptist Church. The candlestick was removed and that place is full of perversion and darkness.

God’s presence departed.

There is always that remote possibility that a man could be infected from a woman that has HIV/AIDS, however, there is also that possibility that this pastor is bisexual. Regardless of how he contracted it, his fate, and anyone that he had sex with, is sealed.

You expect him and the women he committed sexual immorality with to be repentant but he, and quite possibly they are not.

In fact, he is claiming to be supernaturally healed by God. A claim that is as frivolous as calling himself God. I’d like to see several doctors confirm that he is healed. Chances are that this claim is highly false, misleading, and a flat, bald face lie from the pit of hell.

He assumes the pulpit after sharing with the church of his sexual sins. The church leadership attempted to remove that pastor. The pastor changed the locks to the church and took control of the church finances. At this point, the church board is looking into taking legal action.

This is nothing short of a belligerent blatant power control by this sinful pastor.

One of the things that we must understand is that we all must render an account to the Lord. The things we possess on earth are not ours. In a moment, he and those sexually immoral women could close their eyes for the final time and it’s over. And if they are unrepentant, it is expected that they would lift their eyes up in hell. Then be judged by God before the Great White Throne and cast into the lake that burns with fire and brimstone (see Revelation 21:8).

One moment of sexual pleasure is not worth an eternity in hell.

Sadly, for many, it will be the unfortunate, inevitable case.

Ezekiel chapters 18 and 33 tells us that “The soul that sins it shall die.”

Because we see no repentance, there is no question in my mind that should this pastor and female congregants fail to repent, they will end up in hell. For the Bible says, “Be not deceived….neither fornicators…..adulterers…shall inherit the kingdom of God.” and “Marriage is honorable among all and the bed undefiled, but adulterers and fornicators God will judge.”

To the “judge not” crowd, the Bible already judged the unrepentant. Because according to John chapter 3, they’ve condemned themselves. It is only on this side of the land of the living that they have a chance to repent and be saved. After they close their eyes, there is nothing that can be done.

You’ve preached them in to hell. No. I didn’t sin. They sinned and they must be paid the wages of sin (see Romans 6:23). The gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord. It is up to them to take advantage of the gift of God. Should they fail to take advantage of the gift of God, then the wages of sin must be paid to them.

When you work for satan, you will get paid, and satan will not pay you.

God will.

To protect those that are in deliberate sin, unless they repent, they will go to hell. To avoid hell, they must repent. It’s funny how people want to avoid saying this for fear of offending folk. I’d rather be judged by the world than to be judged by God. Because when God judges, it is final. And God already judged in His Word that this is what happens to those that refuse to repent.

Here is the other side of the story.

There are eight types of perverse women in the book of Proverbs.

1. Sexually immoral woman (Proverbs 5:3).

2. Seductive woman (Proverbs 2:16).

3. Harlot (Proverbs 6:26).

4. Adulterous (Proverbs 6:26).

5. Loud (Proverbs 7:11).

6. Rebellious (Proverbs 7:11).

7. Evil woman (Proverbs 6:24).

8. Foolish woman (Proverbs 9:13-18).

Not every woman in Shiloh Missionary Baptist Church fit the bill of these eight types, but if several women were infected, it seems to me that he was not going to stop. And it seems to me that immoral women would not stop either. Then again, we do not know how many others were infected that have yet to report any involvement with this pastor.

There used to be a day when sanctified elderly women would see sexually provocative women come to church and tell immoral women to go home and change clothing.

There used to be a day when holy, consecrated elderly women demanded that the younger women dress modestly so as not to sexually provoke men and in particular, the pastor.

According to 1 John 3:6, “Whoever abides in Him does not sin. Whoever sins has neither seen Him nor known Him.”

When you are this blatant with sin in the facility that houses the professed believer, it is clear that sinning is as easy as breathing air and drinking water. There is no regard for the terror of the Lord. There is no fear of God before their eyes. They are not afraid of the Lord at all.

When more than one woman has been infected, it is clear that this pastor knew what he had and took advantage. But not so fast.

Women talk in church. It is impossible to not know. There is more to this story than meets the eye. Sadly, it’s like this in many places in the Body of Christ. One pastor told me of a church in Harlem, NY where the same thing is happening as far as the adulterous club environment is happening. The congregation won’t leave because like in the article from Black Christian News Network, they make un-Biblical excuses.

Like….“He’s a pastor, but he is human.” This is a lie from the devil every time. When you hear this statement coming from a woman, it is a clear indication that sin is lurking. We can never make excuses for sin. To be sympathetic for sin as opposed to be sympathetic for the standard of holiness puts a person at grave risk of being an enemy of God according to James 4:4.

The last thing you want to be is an enemy of God because of your love for the world and the things of the world.

The sad thing is that there is a standard to hold them by which they have denied. The Word of God, which is the inerrant, infallible Word of God that they’ve deliberately jettisoned.

Is it possible that he took advantage of emotionally unstable women?

Yes.

Were they all emotionally unstable?

Highly unlikely.

Immoral woman hunt for pastors because women gravitate to “anointed men.”

Some of them are on a deliberate demonic assignment to trip up the pastor sexually. And there’s demonically assigned pastors that attract unsuspecting emotionally unstable women.

So with this story, there is more to follow.

Click the link here to read the particulars from BCNN.