Women are unfairly blamed for a lot of things in the world and the church. However, the Bible is clear about the kinds of women that desire to use their femininity to sexually trap men in the church. Not all women are this way. Many seek the Lord and remain holy throughout their lives. But there is the hopeless, desperate, and connection deprived women that no longer hold out.
I can’t help but underscore a woman’s discipline to abstain from sex for 15 years before yielding to her sexually immoral predator pastor and received the death sentence of HIV/AIDS.
“In your patience possess ye your souls.”
Very few churches these days escape the sex scandal. There is always two sides to every story.
When a pastor gets up before the congregation to announce his Secret Sexual Sins, it is the most devastating time for the future of the congregation.
Equally, it is the most devastating time for the wife and family of the pastor. Very few know the pain, anguish, and suffering a wife goes through. Very few understand that way before adultery, the sin of adultery that the pastor fought long and hard to avoid occurred in the secrecy of his private life.
But very few discuss the kinds of women that come to church. Some come with the intent to seduce a pastor, or any male that would look their way. Some are desperate for male companionship that to fulfill connection needs, they offer their bodies as a sacrifice to males. Sometimes break up after break up, women give up being holy and chaste, and “turn the tables” so to speak.
Very few are willing to discuss the breeding ground that led to the sex scandal in a pastor, praise and worship singers, musicians, and other leaders in the church.
Men watch women lustfully, file images in their minds to masturbate off of those images, and then they take it to the next levels in sexual addiction.
Thousands of porn images.
Then when they had enough of fantasy, the select a body. Whether they come through the doors of the church, or pastors and other church leaders engage in prostitution, strip joints, or escort services, it doesn’t matter as long as he gets a body to “cooperate” to fulfill his sexual sins.
It’s in his private life that these things have a place to be sinfully nurtured. Yes, it is premeditated. The lines he said he would never cross, eventually gets crossed.
It’s just a matter of time.
There is no question, that in the church, women out number males. And there is no question that the availability of single males in the church is significantly diminished.
There is no question that not everyone that comes to the church, comes for the right reason. That goes for men and women. Behind our worship lurks the sins of the flesh and spirit, or the mind and flesh.
For the most part we know that married and single males are always on the look out for “strange flesh.”
But strange flesh comes to church and the unsuspecting male, married or single, need to pay attention. Married women in the church need to pay attention to protect their husband because in a flash, an immoral woman will make a play for your husband.
Before I go further, let me reiterate the fact that pastoral sex abuse is no longer the exception. It is common. Pastors use their professional position to take advantage of emotionally unstable women. Male pastors that are smooth with their words and hands are quick to take advantage of unsuspecting, God fearing women that come for counseling and end up in the bedroom.
That’s what’s happening in the church. There are also staff pastors, elders, bishops, deacons, and such that cannot discipline themselves. So we know that this activity is out there.
How do the sexual immoral women come?
Proverbs, as I have stated before, is a handbook of wisdom for boys that are about to become men. There is no question that ladies can learn a thing or two from the book of Proverbs, but, it was written basically for men.
Solomon learned much about women. At the end of his reign, he had 1000 women.
The Bible tells us that “he loved many women.”
There is no question that he had sex with every last one of them and perhaps even more.
But here is what we can learn.
There is the “type” of women that come to many churches. And do not sit there and think otherwise. We must remember that not everyone will come to the church as saved as you think.
Let’s not be naive here.
Another thing not to be naive about is that not all preachers are as clean as you think.
Preachers need Jesus. Sinning preachers need to repent and get right with God.
The kinds of women that come to church, other than the married and single, holy women of God, are called five things.
1. Evil woman. 2. Seductress. 3. Harlot. 4. Adulteress. 5. Immoral woman.
If you are not one of these five, then you have nothing to worry about. But please read on because if you are a married woman, you need to pay attention to these kinds of women that will make a play on your husband. Your husband will not see it coming, but you do and you are his only set of eyes that see beyond the innocent “hehehe’ laugh of women.
We do not put these things out to degrade women. The Bible is clear that when women of this kind comes, it is important for the male to get wisdom from God and avoid her. In Proverbs 7, her house is called, “the way to hell, descending to the chambers of death.”
In Proverbs 7, she also has this spiritual aura about her….“I have peace offerings with me, today I have paid my vows.”
According to Adam Clarke’s Commentary, “peace offerings were offerings the spiritual design of which was to make peace between God and man, to make up the breach between them which sin had occasioned…’much light is cast on this place by the fact that the gods in many parts of the East are actually worshipped in brothels, and fragments of the offerings are divided among the wretches who fall into the snare of the prostitutes’- WARD’s Customs (quote).
Sort of like the prayer that most people in silence make.
“God, forgive me for the sin I am about to commit.”
Key Scriptures to help you identify The Five Kinds Of Sinful Women.
1. Her words of seduction.
Proverbs 5:3-6…“The lips of an immoral woman drip honey, and her mouth is smoother than oil; but in the end she is bitter wormwood, sharp as a two edged sword. He feet go down to death, her steps lay hold of hell, lest you ponder her path of life-her ways are unstable; you do not know them.”
When you fail to keep this Scripture and go for sinful woman, this Scripture is applicable to you…..
“For why should you, my son, be enraptured by an immoral woman, and be embraced in the arms of a seductress? For the ways of man are before the eyes of the Lord, and He ponders all his paths. His own iniquities entrap the wicked man, and he is caught in the cords of his sin. He shall die for lack of instruction, and in the greatness of his folly he shall go astray.”
2. Her beauty.
Proverbs 6:23-25 says…..
“For the commandment is a lamp, and the law a light; reproofs of instruction are the way of life, to keep you from the evil woman, from the flattering tongue of a seductress. Do not lust after her beauty in your heart, nor let her allure you with her eyelids.”
Proverbs 7:10 says this…..
“And there a woman met him, with the attire of a harlot, and a crafty heart. She was loud and rebellious, her feet would not stay at home.”
Women dress to be noticed. Women wear make up to enhance her natural beauty. The right combination guarantees attention. All shapes, all sizes. The right combination is what gets results. But when you want red flag attention, cleavage, high and tight, and hair just right.
Then there is the loud and rebellious kind that is part of the make up of The Five Kinds Of Sinful Woman.
They hate male authority and it is indicative of hating God’s authority. No matter what you tell them, they will do it any way. And nothing stops them except death or mercifully, the power of God. The obnoxious sister that comes in every Sunday to look for trouble falls in this category. Any way to get some attention.
Yes, avoid her because you know they are trouble.
In 1 Peter 3:3-4, Peter, a married man, said this about the dress and behavior of married women…..
“Do not let your adornment be merely outward- arranging the hair, wearing gold, or putting on fine apparel- rather let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quite spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God.”
It doesn’t matter whether it’s the bar or church. When they want to get noticed, it’s an all out intentional cat walk or red carpet actions that gets a man’s attention.
And sadly, when a married woman doesn’t get her husband’s attention, she will dress to provoke the attention of other men.
So brothers, pastors, all men, whether that’s the intention or not, do not fall for it.
Here is a Scripture (Proverbs 4:25-27) that will help you….
“Let your eyes look straight ahead, and your eyelids look right before you. Ponder the path of your feet, and let your ways be established. Do not turn to the right or the left; remove your foot from evil.”
Did you notice “and look at your eyelids right before you?”
That means look at your eyelids. Or close your eyes and let your eyes look at the backside of the eyelids instead of her backside.
What is the price if you fail to take heed? Proverbs 6:26 says….
“For by means of a harlot, a man is reduced to a crust of bread and an adulteress will prey upon his precious life…”
So males, to be men, you need to apply your hearts to the wisdom of God and avoid The Five Kinds Of Sinful Women that come to church.
If you don’t, I hope you like crusts of bread and I hope your nights in hell will be easy.
You hear story after story about straight Music Ministers watching porn, masturbating, screwing choir members, praise and worship singers, or praise dancers. You see gay music ministers lusting after young males and boys in the church.
When will we see pastors take a stand and fire these musicians and then offer them help from the bondages of Secret Sexual Sins?
Is music that important over holiness and pleasing God?
And then when we don’t take action against these sinful acts, these sinful music ministers exercise their ungodly influence to make it seems as if you can’t make it without them. They hold the church hostage with “their gifts and talents” and the church erodes further into the dungeon of darkness and Secret Sexual Sins.
Another thing that is happening is that you see slick talking “prophets” lusting after young boys so they could make them “armor bearers.”
You see this every Sunday. Pastors screwing church secretaries or young hot girls. The church is overrun with lust and it doesn’t look like it’s about to abate.
And we wonder why the homosexual community is successful in establishing alternative churches in the very community where light is to be shed. And they are filling up rapidly. Transvestites, trans-gender humans, and people with lascivious lifestyles that cannot bridle their “animal impulses.” They are abandoning real authentic Christianity standards to have church and sin at the same time.
They are walking in such delusion that if you were to have a conversation with them, they will tell you that the Bible is outdated, wrongly translated, and we who walk in the truth are the ones that is deceived, lost, and going to hell because we do not walk in love or tolerate their sins.
I’m beginning to realize that it’s not just the gay issue that is affecting the church. It’s the entire sexual immorality atmosphere that invaded the church and we do not have a clue as to the ramifications of our inability to reign in second and third tier leadership when Secret Sexual Sins is unchecked in the church.
People burning with lust for same and opposite sex.
We have gone absolutely in the opposite direction of righteousness. We no longer have right standing and right relationship with the Lord because we are in wrong relationship with the Lord.
The root cause is what is really happening in the private lives of people that claim to be Christian.
You have real Christians and you have fake Christians.
Either be real or stay fake.
Then you have bisexual pastors, music ministers, and singers. They play both sides of the fence. They try to play with that “religious fervor” then after service is over, it’s back to business as usual. The lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life.
In the late 1970’s, early 80’s, there were two gay musicians at Zion Baptist Church. As a teen, I really didn’t know what a homosexual person was, but on two occasions, I was propositioned to meet with one of the musicians at his house. Obviously, I knew not to go because of the way he “look/lusted” at me. Like men checking out women, front and back, up and down, same sex attracted men would do the same while looking at other men.
I’m not trying to arouse anyone. I’m just stating the obvious facts.
I didn’t help matters any because after church, I would go home, come out of my church clothes, and dress in shorts to go play basketball. As I would cross the street, that’s when he would propositioned me but I kept on going.
In the opposite direction.
Both of these musicians died.
Chances are, they died of unconfirmed AIDS related illnesses.
Over time, I began to see that this was their way of communicating to you that they want to have Secret Sexual Sins.
The proposition is eye contact as well as their seductive words of intent to see if you knew exactly what they meant. Now get this. This is right after church. Right after the Lord moved and people got saved during service. And all of a sudden you get caught up in the lusts of the flesh.
Fast forward to today and you will see that it is no longer eye contact and signals. It is now communicated with clear intent during service. They no longer wait until after service to make their intent clear. Or they come right from the bedroom, same and opposite Secret Sexual Sinners to lift up unholy hands before God.
The highest form of human depraved behavior is same sex. Remember, perversion in any form is demonic. In manifesting perversion on this level, only reveals that satan himself is perversion at its apex.
The next level is beyond humans where bestiality takes place.
Dr. Michael Brown made a very powerful statement. If we are repulsed at men (catamites) having sex with boys, should we be any less repulsed when two men have sex?
Then the perversion is brought right into the church during praise and worship as they play on the instruments. Performance covering perversion.
God help us.
Listen to what Peter said in 2 Peter 2:12-16,
“But these, like natural brute beasts made to be caught and destroyed, speak evil of the things they do not understand, and will utterly perish in their own corruption, and will receive the wages of unrighteousness, as those who count it pleasure to carouse in the daytime. They are spots and blemishes, carousing in their own deceptions while they feast with you, having eyes full of adultery and that cannot cease from sin, enticing unstable souls. They have a heart trained in covetous practices, and are accursed children. They have forsaken the right way and gone astray, following the way of Balaam the son of Beor, who loved the wages of unrighteousness; but he was rebuked for his iniquity: a dumb donkey speaking with a man’s voice restrained the madness of the prophet.”
These are people inside the church and rogue believers at that. When you correct them, they want to correct you. They sit there, knowing that they are in Secret Sexual Sins, and they have the nerve and audacity to continue in sin that grace may abound. The sad thing is that they don’t go elsewhere to continue in sin. They sit right there in the place of righteousness to thumb their nose at God and you in unrighteousness.
Listen to the Spirit of the Lord through Peter again in 2 Peter 2:7-9.
“…and delivered righteous Lot, who was oppressed by the filthy conduct of the wicked (for that righteous man, dwelling among them, tormented his righteous soul from day to day by seeing and hearing their lawless deeds) — then the Lord knows how to deliver the godly out of temptations and to reserve the unjust under punishment for the day of judgment, and especially those who walk according to the flesh in the lust of uncleanness and despise authority.“
Read the underline. It underscores exactly what is happening in the church.
When a pastor brings a word of correction, all of a sudden, after service, they get into their cars and they say, “I don’t agree with what the pastor said.” Now mind you. The pastor was preaching the Word of God, line upon line precept upon precept about porn and self gratification. About abstaining from Secret Sexual Sin and you do not agree?
They “speak evil of the things they do not understand…those who walk according to the flesh in the lust of uncleanness and despise authority.”
Have you ever walked in to the church service feeling oppressed? Feeling tormented? And somehow, you sense, not only sense but you know that people are despising authority? The only time authority is despised is when their sins are brought out before others in the open. We forget that when we sin in secret, like David, our judgment will be seen in the open, noon day sun for all to see.
If you thought that Adam and Eve were embarrassed when they knew they were naked after they sinned, was something. You haven’t seen the embarrassment that’s coming for you if you are thumbing your nose at God and bringing your Secret Sexual Sins to church during praise and worship.
The root cause could be sexual immorality.
And the problem is that the pastor and people in the church don’t really mind.
Pastors don’t want to “rock the boat” because if you start addressing the issues, the choir can’t sing. You have to hire another musician. And God help us all if the pastor has to step down because of an “indiscretion.”
In one segment of “Gay Christian Movement Watch,” there was a Scripture that was used that blew my mind and really articulated the current state of the church.
“Then He said to me, “ Son of man, lift your eyes now toward the north.” So I lifted my eyes toward the north, and there, north of the altar gate, was this image of jealousy in the entrance. Furthermore He said to me, “ Son of man, do you see what they are doing, the great abominations that the house of Israel commits here, to make Me go far away from My sanctuary? Now turn again, you will see greater abominations.” So He brought me to the door of the court; and when I looked, there was a hole in the wall. Then He said to me, “ Son of man, dig into the wall”; and when I dug into the wall, there was a door. And He said to me, “Go in, and see the wicked abominations which they are doing there.” So I went in and saw, and there —every sort of creeping thing, abominable beasts, and all the idols of the house of Israel, portrayed all around on the walls. And there stood before them seventy men of the elders of the house of Israel, and in their midst stood Jaazaniah the son of Shaphan. Each man had a censer in his hand, and a thick cloud of incense went up. Then He said to me, “ Son of man, have you seen what the elders of the house of Israel do in the dark, every man in the room of his idols? For they say, ‘The Lord does not see us, the Lord has forsaken the land. ’” And He said to me, “ Turn again, and you will see greater abominations that they are doing.” So He brought me to the door of the north gate of the Lord’s house; and to my dismay, women were sitting there weeping for Tammuz. Then He said to me, “Have you seen this, O son of man? Turn again, you will see greater abominations than these.” So He brought me into the inner court of the Lord ‘s house; and there, at the door of the temple of the Lord, between the porch and the altar, were about twenty- five men with their backs toward the temple of the Lord and their faces toward the east, and they were worshiping the sun toward the east. And He said to me, “Have you seen this, O son of man? Is it a trivial thing to the house of Judah to commit the abominations which they commit here? For they have filled the land with violence; then they have returned to provoke Me to anger. Indeed they put the branch to their nose. Therefore I also will act in fury. My eye will not spare nor will I have pity; and though they cry in My ears with a loud voice, I will not hear them.”
In most commentaries, I took note of the fact that when you see the part where the Lord said, “Indeed they have put the branch to their nose,” it is equivalent to THUMBING YOUR NOSE AT GOD!
And that’s what we see in the church. An escalation of abominable practices that reaches its apex.
THUMBING YOUR NOSE AT GOD!
For some reason, we fail to make the corrections because if we lose the people, we lose the money, we lose the church, and we don’t want to do that. We want to be “positive, upbeat, leave with a good feeling.”
All the while, the Lord Jesus gathers all of heaven to pray for your local church because He ever lives to make intercession for us. Yes, Jesus is praying specifically for you to turn from your wicked “Eli” ways. Eli failed to correct his sons and the ark was taken.
The presence of the Lord may not be in the house like you think. You might be feeling good, but deep down you know that Secret Sexual Sins is running rampant in the house of the Lord that has now turned into the house of abomination.
The church need to stop bringing fruit to offer before the Lord because God brought the Lamb.
The church had grown accustomed to bringing before the Lord a “Cain” offering when God requires a Lamb sacrifice. God didn’t ask for fruit because if He were hungry, He wouldn’t tell you.
Man is always trying to substitute and then shove it before the face of God in defiance.
God demanded a Lamb.
How dare you bring Him something He didn’t ask for?
Bring a sacrifice. Not fruit. Stop making God change when it is impossible for Him to change. Stop trying to re-write the Bible when the Word of God cannot be altered. God extended His scepter of righteousness to those that bow before His throne. Only they can approach. God has spoken and you cannot alter it. God placed His eternal seal on the Word of God and there is no way possible for Him to change His mind. Otherwise, He would be a liar and a cheater just like you.
The sanctifying and washing in the church, to prepare the church for the coming of the Lord according to Ephesians 5:26-27 is underway.
This is the Word of the Lord and the former and latter rain wave of the Spirit for this successive age.
Will you be ready?
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